HAPPY OLD AGE ?

HAPPY OLD AGE

Amidst the gloom & doom scenario, Happiness seems to be from a different world. But old age does and can bring happiness: Ike

Jonathan Rauch reports in his book The Happiness Curve, published in May. Life satisfaction appears to follow a U-shaped course, with its twin peaks in childhood, when the world is one great theme park, and in old age, when we've been on all the rides a thousand times and are perfectly content just to watch. It's in the middle—our 40s and 50s, when our power, potential and productivity are the greatest and we should be feeling our happiest—that life satisfaction bottoms out.

Earlier in life, wisdom can seem out of reach. But for those who have attained it, Castel writes, "often wisdom allows people to see the obvious, or to use common sense without second-guessing themselves or the outcomes." 

Between 50-70 we develop Crystalized Intelligence - i.e.able to recollect learned knowledge & expeirences.

We also develop better taste in life from food, wine to holiday destination selection.

Then, too, there is the business of wisdom. Evolutionarily, any species that hopes to stay alive has to manage its resources carefully. That means that first call on food and other goodies goes to the breeders and warriors and hunters and planters and builders and, certainly, the children, with not much left over for the seniors, who may be seen as consuming more than they're contributing. But even before modern medicine extended life expectancies, ordinary families were including grandparents and even great-grandparents. That's because what old folk consume materially, they give back behaviorally—providing a leveling, reasoning center to the tumult that often swirls around them.

In another study cited in Better With Age, a group of successful CEOs ofFortune 500 companies—all 50 to 70 years old—scored lower on lab-based tests of reasoning and processing speed than younger people, yet all the CEOs nonetheless were running huge, stable and exceedingly profitable companies. Clearly, something more than the ability to crunch a lot of data was contributing to their success.

Yes, death is nonnegotiable—something that can only be delayed, never avoided. It's a mercy, then, that when we do reach the end, so many of us arrive there smarter, calmer and even smiling.